[...ok, that went over about as well as could be expected. But at least whatever it is, it's not that bad, not yet, and there's really no tactful way to ask that question. He moves to grab his jacket as he replies.]
Just checking. You're in 'your' apartment now, correct?
[ voice ] also feel free to ignore xD;
No.
[ voice ] /ignores forever
Just checking. You're in 'your' apartment now, correct?